Sunday, 19 January 2025

I have nothing but I have everything...

Today in church I was reminded how blessed I am, though I have nothing.

The message was about the rich young man in Matthew 19, who asked JESUS what he can do to enter the kingdom of Heaven. JESUS reminded him about the commandments of GOD and the rich young man said that he obeys all of them. Then JESUS said he should go and sell all he has and give it to the poor then come and follow HIM. He went away sad because he had great wealth. 

Pastor asked the question, 'What qualifies us to enter The Kingdom of Heaven?'
He ask us what do we which is valuable that we would not want to let it go easily.

I thought about the very same thing just before the new year. I realized that I have everything I need and want, but I have nothing that is mine. Whatever I have is not mine. Everything I seem to have belongs to GOD. Since the day I realized that I have nothing my perspective changed. No one can take from me because I have nothing...everything belongs to GOD.

My life belongs to GOD. I am HIS and HE is mine. There is nothing I can do to enter the Kingdom of Heaven except believe in the LORD JESUS CHRIST what HE has done for me on the cross. HE died for my sin and rose again on the 3rd day so you and I will have everlasting life.

I truly have nothing yet I have everything! 

Friday, 13 December 2024

Holiday Cheer On A Shoestring Budget.

Holiday Cheer on a Shoestring: Budget-Friendly Fun Around the Globe
Who says you need a fat wallet to have a fantastic holiday? With a bit of creativity and a whole lot of enthusiasm, you can experience the magic of the season without breaking the bank. Here are some budget-friendly holiday hacks to help you make the most of your festive season, no matter where you are in the world.
Embrace the Freebies
 * Nature's Wonderland: Explore local parks, forests, and beaches. Many offer free holiday light displays, concerts, and other festive events.
 * Community Celebrations: Attend community Christmas markets, carol sing-alongs, and other free local events.
 * Museum Magic: Many museums offer free admission on specific days or during certain hours.
 * Window Shopping: Stroll through city centers and admire the holiday window displays.
DIY Delights
 * Homemade Holiday Cards: Get crafty and create personalized holiday cards using recycled materials.
 * Bake Your Own Treats: Whip up delicious cookies, cakes, and other goodies to share with friends and family.
 * Decorate Your Home: Use natural materials like pine cones, branches, and berries to create festive decorations.
Free Fun Online
 * Virtual Holiday Cheer on a Shoestring: Budget-Friendly Fun Around the Globe
Who says you need a fat wallet to have a fantastic holiday? With a bit of creativity and a whole lot of enthusiasm, you can experience the magic of the season without breaking the bank. Here are some budget-friendly holiday hacks to help you make the most of your festive season, no matter where you are in the world.
Embrace the Freebies
 * Nature's Wonderland: Explore local parks, forests, and beaches. Many offer free holiday light displays, concerts, and other festive events.
 * Community Celebrations: Attend community Christmas markets, carol sing-alongs, and other free local events.
 * Museum Magic: Many museums offer free admission on specific days or during certain hours.
 * Window Shopping: Stroll through city centers and admire the holiday window displays.
DIY Delights
 * Homemade Holiday Cards: Get crafty and create personalized holiday cards using recycled materials.
 * Bake Your Own Treats: Whip up delicious cookies, cakes, and other goodies to share with friends and family.
 * Decorate Your Home: Use natural materials like pine cones, branches, and berries to create festive decorations.
Free Fun Online
 * Virtual Tours: Explore famous museums, art galleries, and historical sites from the comfort of your own home.
 * Holiday Movies and TV Shows: Cozy up with classic holiday films and TV series available on streaming platforms.
 * Online Games and Puzzles: Engage in fun online games and puzzles to pass the time.
Travel Smart
 * Off-Peak Travel: Consider traveling during the off-peak season to find cheaper flights and accommodations.
 * Budget Airlines: Utilize budget airlines to save on flights.
 * Hostels and Guesthouses: Opt for budget-friendly accommodations like hostels and guesthouses.
 * Cook Your Own Meals: Save money by cooking your own meals in your accommodation.
 * Free Walking Tours: Join free walking tours to explore cities and learn about local history and culture.
No matter where you are or how much you have to spend, the holidays are a time for joy, love, and gratitude. By embracing the spirit of the season and getting creative, you can have a memorable holiday experience without breaking the bank.
Do you have any budget-friendly holiday tips? Share them in the comments below!
: Explore famous museums, art galleries, and historical sites from the comfort of your own home.
 * Holiday Movies and TV Shows: Cozy up with classic holiday films and TV series available on streaming platforms.
 * Online Games and Puzzles: Engage in fun online games and puzzles to pass the time.
Travel Smart
 * Off-Peak Travel: Consider traveling during the off-peak season to find cheaper flights and accommodations.
 * Budget Airlines: Utilize budget airlines to save on flights.
 * Hostels and Guesthouses: Opt for budget-friendly accommodations like hostels and guesthouses.
 * Cook Your Own Meals: Save money by cooking your own meals in your accommodation.
 * Free Walking Tours: Join free walking tours to explore cities and learn about local history and culture.
No matter where you are or how much you have to spend, the holidays are a time for joy, love, and gratitude. By embracing the spirit of the season and getting creative, you can have a memorable holiday experience without breaking the bank.
Do you have any budget-friendly holiday tips? Share them in the comments below!

Saturday, 7 December 2024

Disciplining Teenagers With Connection

Connecting Through Discipline: A Love Language Approach to Teen Discipline
Disciplining a teenager can be a challenging task. Traditional methods of punishment often lead to resentment and strained relationships. A more effective approach is to connect with your teen on a deeper level, understanding their unique needs and preferences.
Love Languages and Teen Discipline
The concept of love languages, popularized by Gary Chapman, can be applied to parent-teen relationships. By understanding your teen's primary love language, you can tailor your discipline methods to resonate with them emotionally. Here are the five love languages and how you can incorporate them into your discipline strategies:
 * Words of Affirmation:
   * Positive Reinforcement: Instead of focusing on negative behavior, highlight positive actions and qualities.
   * Constructive Criticism: When addressing mistakes, do so with kindness and empathy.
   * Encouraging Words: Offer words of support and belief in their abilities.
 * Acts of Service:
   * Shared Responsibilities: Assign chores or tasks that contribute to the family.
   * Quality Time: Spend quality one-on-one time with your teen, engaging in activities they enjoy.
   * Practical Help: Offer assistance with homework, college applications, or other challenges.
 * Receiving Gifts:
   * Thoughtful Gifts: Give gifts that show you care and understand their interests.
   * Symbolic Gestures: Small tokens of appreciation, like a handwritten note or a favorite snack.
 * Physical Touch:
   * Hugs and Kisses: Show affection through physical touch.
   * Non-Verbal Communication: Use gestures like a pat on the back or a comforting touch.
 * Quality Time:
   * Shared Activities: Engage in activities that you both enjoy, such as board games, sports, or hobbies.
   * Focused Conversations: Have meaningful conversations without distractions.
   * Family Outings: Plan family outings to create lasting memories.
Tips for Effective Discipline
 * Set Clear Expectations: Clearly communicate your expectations and the consequences of not meeting them.
 * Be Consistent: Enforce rules consistently to avoid confusion and resentment.
 * Stay Calm: Avoid raising your voice or using harsh language.
 * Listen Actively: Give your teen your full attention and validate their feelings.
 * Offer Choices: Whenever possible, offer choices to empower your teen.
 * Follow Through: Stick to your word and enforce consequences.
 * Practice Forgiveness: After the consequences have been served, forgive and move forward.
By understanding your teen's love language and implementing these strategies, you can create a stronger bond and foster a more positive and effective disciplinary approach. Remember, the goal is not just to punish but to teach and guide your teen towards responsible behavior.

Thursday, 5 December 2024

Discipline Your Two Year Old With Love

Disciplining Your Two-Year-Old: A Love Language Approach
Disciplining a toddler can be a daunting task. However, understanding your child's love language can make this process more effective and less stressful. Here's a guide to disciplining your two-year-old based on their love language:
What is a Love Language?
The concept of love languages, popularized by Gary Chapman, suggests that people primarily express and receive love in five ways:
 * Words of Affirmation: Expressing love through spoken words of affirmation, encouragement, and praise.
 * Acts of Service: Showing love through actions and deeds, such as helping with tasks or running errands.
 * Receiving Gifts: Expressing and experiencing love through giving and receiving gifts.
 * Quality Time: Prioritizing quality, undivided attention, and shared activities.
 * Physical Touch: Demonstrating love through physical touch, such as hugs, cuddles, and holding hands.
Disciplining Your Two-Year-Old Based on Their Love Language
 * Words of Affirmation:
   * Positive Reinforcement: Focus on praising positive behavior and using encouraging words.
   * Gentle Correction: Use calm and gentle language to explain why their behavior is not acceptable.
   * Avoid Harsh Words: Refrain from using hurtful or shaming language.
 * Acts of Service:
   * Time-Outs: A brief time-out can be effective, but ensure it's a quiet place where they can calm down.
   * Loss of Privileges: Temporarily take away a favorite toy or activity as a consequence.
   * Positive Reinforcement: Reward positive behavior with small acts of service, like helping them with a task.
 * Receiving Gifts:
   * Loss of Privileges: Temporarily take away a favorite toy or item as a consequence.
   * Positive Reinforcement: Reward good behavior with small gifts or treats.
 * Quality Time:
   * Loss of Privileges: Temporarily take away quality time activities, like a favorite game or story time.
   * Positive Reinforcement: Spend quality time with your child, engaging in activities they enjoy.
 * Physical Touch:
   * Time-Outs: A brief time-out can be effective, but ensure it's a quiet place where they can calm down.
   * Loss of Physical Touch: Temporarily withhold physical affection, like hugs or cuddles.
   * Positive Reinforcement: Offer physical affection, like hugs and cuddles, as a reward for good behavior.
General Tips for Disciplining a Two-Year-Old:
 * Be Consistent: Maintain consistent rules and consequences.
 * Be Patient: Toddlers are still learning. Be patient and understanding.
 * Set Clear Expectations: Clearly communicate what behavior is expected.
 * Use Positive Reinforcement: Reward good behavior with praise and positive attention.
 * Avoid Power Struggles: Choose your battles wisely and avoid unnecessary conflicts.
 * Model Good Behavior: Children learn by example. Be a positive role model.
 * Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you're struggling, consult with a child development expert or therapist.
Remember, the goal of discipline is to teach, not to punish. By understanding your child's love language, you can tailor your discipline strategies to their needs and foster a positive and loving parent-child relationship.

Monday, 28 October 2024

What if my purpose was like a toilet paper?

All of us use toilet paper, well maybe not all of us all the time but we know what the purpose of toilet paper is. 
I'm sure if you had to choose, you would never choose to be a toilet paper roll.
Sometimes our purpose in life is not something others would admire us for. Sometimes our purpose is not something we want to do or be. 
Forget about yourself. Think about each person you help and make their life easier even with no thought about you. Who sits and reminisce about how great that toilet paper is and how it is changing your life? We just go about doing our business and using the paper all the time. Even shouting others who doesn't put a new one in after they finished it. 
No matter how insignificant you think you are or your purpose is... In the sight of GOD there is no such thing as insignificant. The smallest creation has significance. 
All you and I need to do daily is to be of service..wherever we may find ourselves. 

'If you want to be great in God's Kingdom you must be a servant of all.'

Jesus reminded them that they cannot do that, instead, “whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave.” Matthew 20:26-27 

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You are not trapped, it's just a droplet.

This is a Woodlouse, here it is in a tiny drop of water, yes a droplet. This droplet has this Woodlouse totally immobilized. It is alive but live as if it is dead, because it might feel trapped. I say might feel because I have no idea what it feels or if it can feel. 
This reminds me of how some of us live our lives. We are surrounded with a droplet of water, and we live as if we are dead. We are completely immobilized. 
It is just a drop of water. It won't last for long. This too shall pass like everything else, it came to pass. 
Start moving, move with GOD. In HIM we live and move and have our being.
Live your life to the full, full of beauty. Today might be your last. 

'I (JESUS) came that they may have life and have it abundantly.' NIV

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Saturday, 26 October 2024

Growth comes from GOD

Growth comes from GOD. No matter how much you do for your child, you can never make your child grow
Our plants died, but we didn't throw it away. When Spring arrived it started to get green. It had no help from us. 

We do the best for our children... But GOD makes us grow. 

1 Corinthians 3:5-7
Servants through whom you believed, as the Lord assigned to each. I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth.